Denial, Anger, Depression, Bargaining, Acceptance. Every time they talked about the 5 stages of grief, I never thought I would ever partake in them, Seriously, I have always thought of myself as a strong soul who didn’t need to grieve until the doctor forbade me from taking wheat products recently.
Don’t get me wrong but you can mess with my emotions, my intellectual property or my physical body but don’t mess with my wheat products; cakes, biscuits, pasteries, mandazis, chapatis and sweet bread. I know you are wondering why I am saying this and I will tell you. Sometimes I don’t get along with the people around me and when am lonely or sad those are the things I will eat for comfort and I tend to feel better.
I will actually choose wheat products any day over chocolate or ice cream, yes, I said it! Growing up as an only child most of my life, my grandmother bought me a lot of cakes to make me happy when I was sad or crying and that is a happy memory and I always go back there every time I eat wheat products, moreover, we never cooked chapati a lot of times and when we did everyone would be all smiles that day. I don’t cherish a lot of things in life but I like to hold on to the few that I cherish in order to have some memories.
As we proceed I will keep you updated on the stage that I will be at when posting but as far as am concerned am still in denial and it’s been two weeks since the diagnosis. The benefit of not eating the wheat products, I have learned that my body has remained lean even without exercises,cool, right? On to today’s look, I decided to wear my casual boots with a cropped sweater, a pair of jeans and my fedora hat, this look is perfect when hanging out with friends or going to the mall#shopping!
A shoe has so much more to offer than just to walk#Christian Louboutin
Stay fashionable, stay stylish and be a fashion style mogul.
Photo credits- Ngash Sage Photography( Facebook and IG)
Crop top- Thrift, Gikomba
Jeans- Jamia mall
Fedora hat- Thrift, Adams arcade