Life isn’t perfect but your outfit can be
I honestly can’t remember the last time I went out on a dinner date, well I have had coffee dates and brunch dates with a few admirers but they always end there.
Most of these admirers never make it to the second date which is a lunch date let alone a third date which is a dinner date. Thanks to social media and a lot of dating sites, men have it easy, which means they will either take things for granted or never realize when something good comes their way. I am all about respect on the first date where the guy will pick me up or send an Uber for me, then open that door as I get in and pull that chair as I sit but most importantly take care of that bill because if am paying for my meal, I will kick you to the curb or brother zone you immediately.
The problem with most women is settling for less just because statistics have it that women are more than men or the notion that the beautiful ones have not yet been born, but to hell I say! If the beautiful ones have not been born it means my boyfriend/ future husband is in his mother’s womb because if Madonna can date someone half her age and Halle Berry and Jlo can date men younger than them, so can I. I know I sound like a bitter Betty on this one but I am not, am just baffled by it all, but in the mean time, I can go on those dates with my girls or my gay friends who are always my plus ones to many events or social gatherings.
Another major issues is guys taking you out and after spending a few coins on you they think that’s a gateway to sleeping with the you, if Jesus Christ fed 5,000 men and we are not counting the children and women involved and he didn’t expect anything in return, who are you to expect something in return after spending a few coins on a lady? That shows greed, lack of manners and lack of respect because that’s equating the worth of the lady to those few dollars or shillings. Then there those who spend nothing at all on you and they want the first date to be in their condos/house in the name of cooking for you, well, shame on you because I ain’t falling for that trap, what’s the point of me knowing your house before knowing your last name?
I truly love my solitude and I will only have someone in my life if they are better than my solitude, till then I will enjoy my single hood as I observe these men try to lie their way into my hard heart, good luck fellas! I styled this last apparel with a body con dress that can be worn to the office, and one can then add the coat in the evening for a dinner outfit because that’s how you do it on a Friday!! Do we love the look or nay…..
Stay fashionable, stay stylish and be a fashion style mogul!
Photo credits- Ng’ash Sage Photography
Makeup- Make up by Tosh
Fur coat- Cecyl, 071230744
Body Con Dress- Jamia mall, 0718707585
Shoes- Backyard, Jamia Mall
Location- Leon Villas Guest House